Published Nov 10, 2006 - 10:10:27 pm PST

IN THEORY:


A chance to earn forgiveness

Some reports about the resignation last week of evangelist the Rev. Ted Haggard from his leadership post at the National Assn. of Evangelicals over allegations of methamphetamine use and a homosexual relationship have touched on the topic of the rehabilitation of wayward clergy. They've sparked a discussion on issues of addiction among clergy and how forgiving we should be of their misdeeds. With the news that Haggard admitted that he bought methamphetamine and received a massage from a male prostitute, the sex abuse cases in the Catholic Church and even going back to the scandals involving televangelists Jim Bakker and Jimmy Swaggart, how do you react to this news and how do you think people and congregations should react? Should they be quick to forgive and bring them back? Also, are you seeing more of such problems among clergy?

Every human inherits the effects of original sin: a darkening of the intellect and a weakening of the will. This makes us more susceptible to the three sources of our temptations: the world, the flesh and the devil.

Another basic principle is that of redemption. It is possible to be truly sorry, and with the grace of God, to truly change. It is possible to overcome addictions that enslave us. But for some deep-seated addictions, we cannot normally do it alone, we need professional help. The 12-step programs can be very helpful to overcome addictions to alcohol, drugs, gambling, sex and pornography.

All these addictions cause damage to personal growth and affect our judgment. Some addictions are known only to the person enslaved, some are known to the spouse or family and some become public scandals and cause grave damage to many.

When a clergyman causes grave scandal, even if he is truly sorry and not just sorry because he got caught, it is almost impossible for him to regain trust and the ability to lead a community of faith.

It's easy enough for the congregation to forgive him, but it might take a long time for them to see that person as one who can build up their faith community.

THE REV. GENE FRILOT

Pastor Emeritus

Incarnation Catholic Church

Glendale